Pdf Ï All the Rage ¿ Darcy Lockman
Picking up where All Joy and No Fun left off All the Rage sets out to understand why in an age of so called euality full time working mothers still carryThe ineuity of domestic life is one of the most profound and perplexing conundrums of our time In an era of seemingly unprecedented feminist activism enlightenment and change data show that one area of gender ineuality stubbornly remains the uneual amount of parental work that falls on women no matter their class or professional status All the Rage investigates the cause of this pervasive ineuity to answer why in households where bot This book will in fact fill you with ALL THE RAGE Darcy Lockman’s nonfiction is the feminist text I didn’t know I needed She breaks down the ways in which working mothers are drowning in the unshared task of parentingIt genuinely changed my perspective on planning for motherhood in the futureSo many of us assume that our version of parenting will look different than that of our parents’ generation We expect that we will have an EUAL partnership in child rearing Well it turns out that privilege is a bitch and sexism is deeply ingrained in our brains and that shit is hard to shake Men will happily change diapers and engage with children but when it comes to the day to day planning scheduling and sacrificing it is still falls on women to bear the brunt of the burdenWhat struck me most about this book is how bitter these women were towards their partners That is NOT something I want for myselfIf you are a woman who wants to have children with a man some day All the Rage is mandatory reading I would love to read a review from a millennial mother Does your experience match this book?If my partner did half the shit the men in this book did I think I would murder him HIGHLY recommend
Darcy Lockman ¿ All the Rage Book
All the RageComes to pass Starting with her own case study as Ground Zero she moves outward chronicling the experiences of a diverse cross section of women raising children with men; visiting new mothers’ groups and pioneering co parenting specialists; and interviewing experts across academic fields from gender studies professors and anthropologists to neuroscientists and primatologists Lockman identifies three tenets that have upheld the cultural gender division of labor and peels back the reasons both men and women are culpable Her findings are startling and offer a catalyst for true change Abandon hope all ye who enter hereI mean not really But reading books like this and let me stress this book is EXCELLENT brings slamming home the casual sexism of living with and loving because why else would you do it? a man in 20 fucking 19 I'm not a mother so the childcare stuff isn't even a factor in this for me and yet I still saw myself in these women The chapter on HOW men avoid giving up their privilege was absolutely mind blowing in its familiarityI can't recommend this highly enough ESPECIALLY to men who live with women
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